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Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

An article by Mark Moxon, travel writer © All rights reserved.

This is the muddy confluence from which Kuala Lumpur takes its name

I jumped on the bus for Kuala Lumpur on Thursday 27th November. Kuala Lumpur is the capital of Malaysia, and in the local language the name means 'muddy confluence', an apt description of the two rivers that meet in the city centre. Apart from that, though, Kuala Lumpur is a pretty smart place, a far cry from the large conurbations of Indonesia.

The Petronas Twin Towers from the top of the Menara Kuala Lumpur

Monsoon Confluence

The massive Twin Towers dominate the KL skyline

Arriving in KL on Thursday, Franco1 and I found a place, wandered around exploring, and ended up eating in a steam café. A steam café is not unlike a fondue, except you dip your meat into boiling water rather than oil; it's a pleasant way to eat, there on the sidewalk, watching the world go by. And it's a great place to be when the rain kicks in.

Exploring KL

The Selangor Club in Merdeka Square

The next day, with Franco occupied with his new arrival, I wandered the streets of KL alone. The scorching sun shone on streets of choking traffic and gleaming buildings, and it wasn't long before I found myself liking KL considerably. It doesn't have the insanity of Indonesia2, but it does have the character that is increasingly hard to find in slick Singapore. The Chinatown area, where I stayed, is just like any other Chinatown in the world – noisy, bustling streets with millions of shops, restaurants, stalls, people and smells – but KL has character beyond Chinatown. The buildings are the main attraction: with everything from colonial architecture (like magnificent Merdeka Square) to local (the many mosques and temples) to ultra-modern (the skyscrapers), KL is most definitely a great place to walk around.

The Menara Kuala Lumpur reflected in a skyscraper

The Sultan Addul Samad building in Merdeka Square, central Kuala Lumpur

The greenery of Merdeka Square

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1 An entertaining Italian whom I met in Melaka, Franco was meeting his girlfriend off the plane the next day and was hoping to use the travelling experience to keep her off the heroin she'd been hooked on until recently. I hope it worked.

2 I'd started to encounter a larger diversity of travellers, now that I was on a real backpackers' thoroughfare, but most of the people I met hadn't been to Indonesia, either because they had yet to go there, or because they'd skipped it on the way north; and absolutely nobody I met had been outside of Sumatra, Java, Bali and Lombok. On the other hand, those who had been to Indonesia and who had also travelled through Southeast Asia were quite adamant that Indonesia is the hardest and most frustrating place to travel in the area, and in the rest of Southeast Asia and the Indian subcontinent, only India is more challenging. This reassured me quite a bit, after the frustrations I'd felt in the outer reaches of Indonesia, and my later experiences would bear this theory out.


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